Gurnee's Local Dating Service

Hmm what to say? Well i don't really seem to get out to much. I have spent that last 10 years trying to get my carrer on track and dating it seems became a back burner thing. I can be very loyal to friends and family but just as unforgiving as well. I try to be the nicest person I can and I belive that I do the best job that I can. Althoght it seems that I may be to nice at times. I enjoy the winter and love playing in the snow. I will even go out at midnight to make a snowman. I love to talk to people even if its about somethign that I may not agree with. I love having conversations that can make a person think. I don't however like or respect a person that will try to force their personal or spirtitual belifes on to someone else. For the most part I'm pretty much ordinary, but a little socalily inept.

Hi, I am Joe! I am that tall white boy who live a few houses down.. Kind of the boy next door type deal if you will. I am a walking contradiction most days. I believe that food really good wine and bass lines can save humanity.
I believe that the most commonly underrated trait is honesty. Really if you have some thing to say, say it and have the guts to tell people face to face. I believe: that there has a massive down fall of accountability and personal integrity in society to day, Ego is the biggest flaw of the human condition and I believe in random acts of kindness and compassion.

I did 9 years in the navy. Left Chicago when I was 17. its been along time coming but 12 almost 13 years later Iam finaly back where I think I belong.With one huge exception... I have the most aswome 4 year old girl. Things never worked out with her mom and I. Sad to say she lives in San Diego still. She owns me and she knows it. I have never been married. Some woul;d call Kids baggage. I call my daughter baby and princess./ its mandatory that I call her every day/every other day and this has to be ok.

Ok I just meet like Ellen and she is the "Bomb" sorry girls off the market now .. How ever I am still off the market If you are looking for some one to email and stuff Hit me up if not Peace thanks for stopping by and scoping me out and good luck to you!!

Heya everyone! How is everyone today? Great i hope; i've just recently moved to Gurnee Illinois and i'm looking to meet others of like mind and taste. I'm a great and fun loving guy willing to try most anything. I am the father of a beautiful 18 month old and that is the primary reason i moved up here. Regardless i am looking forward to getting to know all of those in the area.

I kinda disappeared again- and I likely will again. Sorry to all those who messaged me in the past two months. Long involved story there. I'll nutshell it: death in the family, mom had major surgery, Christmas, registered for classes, classes got canceled, had to find new classes... Yeah. Crazy few months. I will try to do better. I make no promises, but I will try. New items to note: I chopped my hair off again. Its super short again. Spunky and curly and cute. Third time I've done it. It will grow back and I will do it again. By "done it" I mean donate to Locks of Love. I am in my 4th semester of grad school and I must warn you that I as a graduate student and may disappear for weeks on end to finish long arduous assignments at random intervals. Its not you, its me. Really this time. I promise. At this time I have returned to online conversations and internet dating. No exotic wealthy alpha male has swept me off my feet yet. I keep hoping. In the meantime I have been keeping busy reading trashy romance novels and getting ready for school. I am a graduate student, studying to become a librarian. Its where the books live. I am an introvert, a bit shy, until I get to know you that is. Then I tend to shock the socks off of people. I have noticed people look at me and see the girl next door, the one mama would approve of, but if I am really comfortable or in a certain mood... I promise there isn't anything that mama would approve of. I want to meet someone who will make me laugh, who I can talk to about everything, who isn't afraid of spiders (cause I am and someone needs to squish them...) I want to meet someone who is as passionate as I am and has the confidence I often lack. I want a man who is strong but gentle and kind. Who is willing to try new things and understands my humor as well as can make me laugh. I am a romantic and a cynic. I have hope that there is such a thing as true love and I crave it but I also fear that what my heart craves is purely fiction and can only be found in those trashy books I read. I want to find that person who will look for me first in every crowd, even if there is no reason for me to be there. Who will think of me first thing every morning and reach for me every night, as I will do the same. I want the fairy tale. Oh, and one other thing... You have to be able to cope with crazy tangential conversations. I am raging a.d.d. girl. I am going to save the pla-ooh shiny. Where was I?

I would describe myself as Ivan Reitman with Kramer's hair. I am also a huge dork, I love playing computer games and prefer a night relaxing with friends discussing current events over a "night out".

Ok what can I say about myself. I work as a Media Merchandiser for Best Buy. Oh and I love anime, video games, zombies (I am utterly addicted to all that is zombie related) and dorky nerdy stuff. Im fun and even though those arent the most interesting things in the world to many, they are my hobbies and interests. Im proud to be the way I am. If youre not judgemental and would like to give me a chance, hit me up.

Ive been known to be too nice to date. At least I get that from what ive been told. "Youre too good a friend to date." Is the most common excuse. I believe kindness, honesty and friendship are keys to relationships. Why should I be punished for being what girls always say they want out of a guy?

I have two tattoos. One is Beatles themed and the other is a tribal style dragon I designed.

Im a cat person, but that doesnt mean i hate dogs.
I have three cats and two ferrets.

And just so you know, I may not be the ripped hunk of man every woman is looking for, but I guarantee id be a better boyfriend than any guy like that could ever be. Dont believe me? try me? I double dog dare ya :P

Also, it says im an athiest. that doesnt mean im judgemental or mean. Im actually one of the nicest people youll ever meet and i promise you that. I respect everyones point of view and actually dont mind hearing about your beliefs as long as you arent being preachy. I will date anyone of any religion. All I ask is you respect that religion is not something that interests me personally. Im glad people have found happiness in faith. It just never worked for me. Ive tried.

Hit me up if you think Im someone youd like :)

Hello to all I am new on here I hope to meet awesome people And maybe something more. I am a Caring, Respectable, Hardworking guy I am Interested in the same type of person.I Love to spend time with friends and watch movies. I am ready to meet some one that I can spend my life with. I also look For some one educated or has goals and aspirations for there life. this Is very important to me.

I am In school for Criminal Justice and Hope to work for the D.E.A

I come from a middle sized family I have one brother and two sisters, I am proud of them one is studying to be a Doctor, The other a Lawyer, and my brother Works for a medical company.

I don't find myself very interesting, but people tell me I am. I've been described as everything from a nice guy to a lost soul. I guess they're not really mutually exclusive. I like a variety of music and pop culture. I enjoy most classic Disney, but some of the new stuff too. I like interactive activities; dancing, sports, and just generally having a good time. I love the Cubs (even though they don't always love me), and I'm a big Bears fan too. I'm terrible at filling these things out.

i'm a hard working stoner, easy going, love to hang out with friends and be outside on a nice day. i am funny, sarcastic, sometimes dark humor but always in good fun trying to get a laugh. i am usually a positive thinker, although i wasn't always that way. i don't like the bar or club scene, but i don't mind hanging out at dive bars with friends or at places with live music. i used to be part hippy and part raver, if that tells you anything. i went to school for computer programming and i have played a few online games, so i guess that makes me a dork? or a nerd? i'm not sure, i'm just me ;)

I'm a very energetic and optimistic guy who likes to laugh and enjoys being romantic (in all the senses of the word). I'm smart, sensitive, outgoing, and in the best shape of my life.

My full list of passions and hobbies is very long. So here's the short version: Yoga, softball, astronomy, piano, cooking, writing.

The right person for me will be outgoing, active, smart, funny, passionate, curious, and positive. Looks aren't everything, but they are something. So my partner and I need to evoke that body and soul "something" that makes our eyes lock and hearts beat faster.

I like imagination in romance, I enjoy giving gifts, and I love thinking of fun gestures of my feelings. I like sharing affection across the whole spectrum -- from wink to ....you know.

My goal is to find someone who feels she's a complete person who is looking for another complete person to share fun with. We don't need to be identical in every interest but we need to both want a balanced relationship with equal contribution. And as complete, secure people, we also recognize that each of us has other life obligations and each of us is entitled to some personal time, too.

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I am outgoing and loyal, I am expressive and communicate well in a relationship. I enjoy mundane conversation as well as passionate discourse. Intelligence is a key component to developing interest as well as maintaining a long term relationship. I believe it takes time to find the right match. The first stage of a relationship one can never retrieve and I like to savor the butterflies, sweetness, and fire this can bring. I enjoy people who challenge me to think in different ways as I hope to reciprocate.

I like independent/assertive women not afraid to eventually show their vulnerability as their trust increases. I enjoy a sense of humor, a belief in random acts of kindness and understanding the five languages of love. My primary language is physical, although the others are important too. I am looking for someone with similar values and beliefs in a way of life.
I describe myself as a feminine woman who is interested in living her passions. I have many things in life which give me â??happy thoughtsâ?? and I expect the same from my partner.

In general I like to think deeply, contemplate the workings of the universe, and be in awe of the world around me. I guess this would also fall in the category of optimistic nerd. I enjoy living between Chicago and Milwaukee because it offers double the eclectic opportunities for adventure with the peacefulness of living in a suburb. I am an extrovert until I become tapped from the intensity of the day or overloading on work, then I go within to recharge. Communication in all forms is important to me, but I donâ??t need constant contact. I believe in a balance between time together and time apart, we can negotiate the percentages. I am a mother and take my role seriously. I am excited about her being away at college and seeing her independence and the potential she is living.

I have a list of qualities I am looking for in a partner, which just means I am not settling for mediocrity in a relationship.. It is important that we are similar enough to enjoy each otherâ??s company, but different enough to keep it interesting. I appreciate people who quest to understand themselves at a deeper level. I enjoy my peaceful life and would like to share this appreciation for serenity with someone. Serenity does not mean passionless or boring. I am all for the passion and exhilaration life can afford us. Reading is important to me. I find reading together is intimate.

I am an overly educated woman who has spent the last decade living all around the county--mostly because of being in school and a few other things. Some times things get busy, but I am a great procrastinator, so I can make time for the things that I want to get in. That usually puts my dogs at the top of my list, when I get home from work. My dogs are here to stay, so whomever I meet needs to be cool with big dogs. In my free time, aside from reminding my dogs that they are the most pampered pooches in the neighborhood, I like to spend time with friends, watch movies, read, write, and play sports.

I'm Shawn. I'm not great looking, but if you give me a chance I'll be attached to your hip ;). I work at a grocery store. I'm kinky in bed. I love animals. Literally. I'm looking for love! I'm very romantic. I like long walks to McDonalds and sharing a big bucket of fries! I'll show you a good time. I love smart people. I like to carry on intellectual conversations and be with intelligent people. I'm very smart, so they say. I'm half Japanese. I want to be a surgeon or a teacher. I always played school as a kid. I love having a good time and just kicking back.

I am the type of person that doesn't play games. I am a very outgoing person that LOVES to talk! I will talk about anything and everything. I am a very open minded person. I like to hear about how your day was. I am a great listener and I enjoy it to. My friends have told that I am a very sweet, kind and compassionate person that thinks of others first. I have a inncrediable sense of humor, I often laugh at myself. You should to.

I would like to meet a man that isn't afraid to show his true selfo me. I am a very easy going person, so I think that you should be to. You should be the type of man that opens doors, pulls out chairs, does on the whim romantic things that are more thoughtful than financial.

I've lived here for a little over a year ago from Florida and I love Chicago but I'd like to turn up the thermostat in the winter. I've been in sales for six years since I left college in NY and I like sales until I get into business for myself. I'm open to anything active, I played all kinds of sports growing up and always interested in trying new things. I don't sing karaoke but if I did it would be Chili Peppers. I'm not looking for just someone that I get along with but someone that mutually makes me better.I don't do the self mirror portrait but I'm on week 5 of a workout program and I'm open to feedback.

I'm a real laid back cat but once you get to know me I'm pretty funny.... I don't know what to say. This is the first time I'm really using this site so I guess it doesn't hurt to try. You can't really describe yourself in this stupid little 'about me' section.. But like everyone else I'm going to try .. I like to have a good time and make people laugh is that a crime.... I hope not but I also like to sit at home and watch some TV or a movie-you can't go out every night, I just will not do that. I like to watch sports-Chicago sports fan.Cubs, Bulls, Bears, Blackhawks etc college basketball is my fav.I like to go downtown to listen to some dj's and dance my ass off. I haven't done that in a while so I prefer to find a chill place to hang out and relax and just have a good time with friends and have a Newcastle or two which I can never have only two :P.

I'm a real simple guy that's looking for a real simple women in my life. I work 8 to 4 during the week. I go home make dinner and repeat. sounds fun right. HA I'm just looking for some new friends or maybe something more than that. Will update when I have more time.

I'm looking for my better half aka partner in crime :)

So if you want to hit me up by all means you can .......... Peace and have a great day.

I Dj for fun, either up in the north suburbs or in the city. Hip Hopand House Music .Play Guitar Hero ..Yes, I play it. :P. Love soccer.. Also enjoy staying in and watching a movie.

OK well I don't think writing about myself is easy, can I ask someone else to write about me? I have no idea what to put down. So you want to know more about me? I have many interests, I like pool, movies, books, football, hockey, MUSIC, and good people. I like to plan out special trips with a significant other and making new experiences with someone. I am looking for someone that will make me happy, aren't we all. I guess to be more specific I am looking for someone who doesn't judge others, can laugh at themselves, like to try new things, knows how to argue, and can get my sarcasm!!!
So let me know what you think, and don't hesitate to ask me anything else!

Hi, I'm Erin! I try to live my life to the fullest, spending time with the important people in my life (family and friends) and learning new things (which has resulted in some "unique" hobbies). I'm pleased with the accomplishments I've reached in my life, such as my education, career, and home. I would love to find someone to share my life with and eventually have my own family.

My name is Dontae, I move to Illinois in 2008 after i graduated from Yale University.I like to stay active and live a healthy lifestyle and eat healthy.I like going to the gym, Art Museum, and i like to Travel.

Hi,First off i have a great sense of Humor. No lie. "lol"
I am looking to meet a woman who is easy to talk to,has a great sense of humor,can make me laugh,and will laugh with or at me. She loves to talk about anything and she's intelligent. She enjoys spending time together,doing whatever. Its most important to have that and fun with...then go from there.

Well, I'm Richard. I'm 20 years old. I'm really laid back, and I enjoy the little things. I'm not a party-goer. I don't drink, smoke, or do any drugs. I like to be on the internet, play video games (mainly PC games), build computers, play board games, watch anime, movies, go bowling, make bonfires, food, etc. I'd like a girl who enjoys these things, and would prefer cuddling at home watching a movie rather than going out and being the life of the party. I also am allergic to all milk and tree nuts. (See: anaphylaxis) - So, thats partly why I'm skinny. Also I'm skinny because I'm a drummer which you can read about below. So yeah, I'd also like someone understanding of food allergies, or willing to learn. It's a hassle.

I'm currently at CLC in Grayslake and I'm getting a degree in Music Education to be a teacher. My real dream is performance, and I work with bands in Chicago and Milwaukee but even if I made it, I'd still want to teach on the side. I'm transferring probably next fall to a different school, but I'm not sure where yet. Probably somewhere in Chicago.

OH! Also, I love animals. So you have to, to. I have a ton of them :)

Hi! I live in Gurnee and also go to school there. I love to hang out with my friends. I'm really into music. I'm a pretty laid back person, but I don't like being put in boxes. I'm kinda random and kinda sarcastic, but I think its in a good way. I love inside jokes and laughing in general. I've been told my type is kind of teddy bear-ish.

I never know what to say about myself...my good friends would say I'm intelligent, funny and independent. I have a great sense of humor, fun, energetic and always up to a challenge.

I'm looking for someone who is respectful, honest and trustworthy. I would like someone to make me laugh and cheer me up if I need it. I don't need someone who is rich, just someone who is smart about money and handles it wisely. I would like someone who is close to her family.I am a very open minded person! About everything. I have my own views and opinions but I always listen to others. I love getting into discussions with others, even if we have opposing views.

Also someone that knows how to have lots of fun and be crazy and silly and spontaneous at the same time. Being serious all the time is just boring!

21, Junior in College. Accounting Major/Marketing Minor. Working for the same company since I was 15, like to go out, travel, and work out in my free time. My two favorite places are Santa Barbara California and Rhinelander Wisconsin. I like to bike, run, and swim. My work keeps me busy a lot, but I want to meet some cool people, and hopefully at some point form a relationship, it's been awhile since I've had a a real good relationship.

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I am not to sure about this whole thing but I am sure that I am an honest (often to a fault) fun person who is looking for the same. I prefer witty, educated, forthright, thoughtful, and elegant. If you are all of those then I will be very interested to chat with you.

Hiya...so this is the first time that i've tried a site like this, but my brother recommended that it is a great way to meet new people, so i figured that i'd give it a try. My friends tell me that i'm a fun loving prankster that is always looking for a good laugh, usually at one of my friends expense! I'm so done with the bar scene as a way to meet new woman, i put myself through college bartending...been there! done that! so again, another reason to give okcupid a try.

Hey! I'm Jenni and I'm 22 years old. I am a clutz and a huge dork--I trip over everything and I am always stumbling over words or making up my own! I love to laugh and have a great time and am usually up for anything! I have an amazing family who mean the world to me and some kick ass friends that I couldn't live without! I am completely satisfied going out and having a great time or staying in and watching some good movies! Anything else you wanna know, you'll just have to ask!! ;-)

I am a very positive, family oriented girl. I love to cook and clean and bake, and enjoy taking care of people. I have my career and having worked on that I am ready to settle down. I have had some bad luck in relationships, different goals but not bad relationships. I think little things are important, like watching tv together, having dinner, spending time with friends and family and just going bowling.

just looking to see what is out here... if things happen.. they happen... tired of looking for it... would love to hangout and see what happens...

I love the outdoors... biking, concerts, the city.... always looking for new friends... just which one will go further, is the question....

Hmmm.....what to say. I like warm weather...the outdoors. Am an avid golfer. Use to bowl in the winter but quit a while back. Also am a great cook....at least I think I am. I'm still alive so can't be too bad. Not a big movie watcher but love The History Channel. Law and Order too....always can find it on some channel.A Civil War nut also.
Anything else ya wanna know just ask.

My name is Amy i am a 27 year old single bbw. I am always there for my frineds and family. I have no childern of my own but am very close to my brouther and sisters kids along with my god doughter. I am layed back and like to have fun, I will trying anything once. I am not one to make plains just go with the flow is more fun, then you dont know where you will end up at the end of the night. I like movies, walking on the beach (yah i know every girl says this but its really true there is something about the whater that just calms me) i dont mind renting a movie and staying home, or hitting a club and danceing all night. I am not like a normal girl i was rasied by my father and brouther so i am more in to sports then makeup. I love to dance and be around people, i can come off as shy at first but once you get me talking i am sold from there. I would like to be around someone who can make me smile and feel like i am the only girl in the world.

Typicall guy who goes to skool and work. Currently taking criminal justice and working
As a Loss Prevention Agent.

I consider myself someone who tries not to take life too seriously. Although life's battles are never ending and random, I try to laugh, smile, and dance every day to keep me through and to always stay true to who I am. I love to dance, write poetry, write song lyrics, hence the screen name :-), I'm family oriented, an animal lover, enjoy hanging out with friends, like to be in company and go nuts if I'm bored. I like to have fun and be creative.

Hi. I'm Liz. I'm an actress, and interested in just about everything. I live in Gurnee, IL currently. I'm hoping to move soon though. I don't really know anyone here yet, but I'm looking to change that.
Music, movies, and theatre are my main loves in life. I am an avid Doctor Who fan, and am kind of an anglophile. Also, the Dark Knight is easily the best film I've ever seen. I also love anything and everything Neil Gaiman and Alan Moore. I also liked Watchmen. Everyone thinks I'm nuts, but I thought it was well done. Is it just me? I also like gazing at the stars on a clear night, which around here isn't too common. One thing I am NOT looking for is casual sex. If that's what you're after, sorry, wrong number. Anything else, I'm open to.
Later, everyone.

I play german board games aka euro board games. Really, I'll play any kind of board games so long as it's not your basic Milton Bradley family fare. I also play console games, and yes, I am a little ashamed of that as a former PC gamer. Most frequent video games these days: L4D, Rock Band, Bioshock. Most frequent board games: Pillars of the Earth (with expansion), Agricola, Puerto Rico (a renaissance), any crayon rail game.

I have a cat. I'm married, and we have an open relationship. I drink Diet Coke with Lime whenever I can.
In the warmer (but not warmest) months, I like biking and running around in the woods. Sometimes I do Orienteering or urban adventure racing (but just for fun). In the cold months, I'm learning to ski. I can do blue runs at Devil's Head now, w00t!

Hey the name is Mike, I am the real life equivalent of what I would imagine Abraham Lincoln looked like, only without the hat. I honestly prefer to view life as just another stream of conscience much like a dream what comes and goes is my own and anything afterwards will be a whole new adventure no mater what it might be. But if that sounded a it to new-age nutjob for ya ill write a normal introduction. I really love laughing and I have been doing it just about everyday since I was born, the people I care most about in life are the ones who make me laugh, anyone who cares to dampan a fun situation or hark the heralds of ill-intent (yea I am also a tad bit nerdy) need not apply. Fun conversations about anything or serious discussions about life is a great way to start, honestly whatever you want to talk about is fine, I am always down to chat.

I am a fun guy who makes sure that he has his true friends back at all times.... I always make sure that i give sole attention to what i am passionate about... I am not really to good at explaining my self it is just easier for people to see when they listen

Well im 21 years old, im in the military it is what it is, I love life I really do, I love everything about it. I love to go out and just be in town, visit the cities and explore the country side. I love to travel, and laugh. In fact I find myself laughing at my own thoughts and jokes most of the time...I dont think its that crazy

About myself :
I am an avid antique, yard sale, garage sale lady, it is part of one of my business'. I also work in the health care field. I love to spend time with my dogs, take walks with them. I enjoy fishing, camping, riding horses and just enjoying each others company. I love to eat out, from casual to occasionally fancy. Love to sit on the front porch, sip ice tea or an occasional drink, when the mood strikes and enjoy the sunset. I read novels and love road trips. Love TIVO. Plan to retire on a small farm in Tenessee in the future. I have several dogs, cats and a dove.
Ideal Match for me:
Must LOVE pets. Must be financially secure and willing to bring something to the table. Must love to be spontaneous. Enjoy road trips. Shooting range. Laid back with a sense of humor.

i really dont know what to say in these things i am lookin for someone to spend sometime with friends or whatever i have a daughter and she is my life i am easygoing and can get along with just about anyone the most important thing to me is respect you give what you want and thatz how i live my life nething else you wanna know just ask

I am quiet and intellectual but alot to offer you have to find out exactly what I got to offer.

My self summary...hmmm seemingly an easy question yet I sit here debating what to say about myself. I'll give it my best try. I am a guy in his mid twenties who has an amazing career/life but is missing one big thing...someone to share it with. I am originally from Michigan, got stationed out here while I was in the military and never wanted to leave since. I am not the type of guy that is going to just approach a random woman at a bar, and try to grab her attention with a bunch of pick up lines. I don't know what it is, guess I've always been the quite reserved guy. As I get into my mid-late twenties I am realizing that I need to change. I promise though if you can get me out of my shell I am a great guy(so I've been told). I don't take advantage of people, I tend to be the person everyone comes to for answers or help, which because of my job field is something I don't think of twice before doing. I am just looking for that one person that is willing to take a leap of faith and give me a chance.

Hi.. i am wanting to meet a cute girl with an awsome personality who is smart and not overbearing.. i am 6 foot 175lbs.. muscular (weightlifter), im smart.. i have a good personality, i have many talents, and i luv to meet new ppl.. message me if your interested.

I'm single with 2 dogs and am currently at a cross-roads in life. I love music, traveling, painting, and enjoy doing pretty much anything that stimulates my mind/body/soul. I am a spiritual person. I believe in karma and in treating others the way I wish to be treated myself. I was pretty wild & crazy back in the day; however, while I still enjoy having a great time, I have mellowed out quite a bit. I am an avid fan of the band PHISH and have been since the 1st time I saw them in 1994. the grateful dead is my other favorite band of all time...although, I really do enjoy all quality music from jazz & blues to classic rock to hip-hop to rock n' roll, etc... Over the years, I've also grown to love widespread panic, the disco biscuits, ween...and I grew up listening to & going to see bruce springsteen with my mom. I'm an all-around HEAD, not just a phish-head or deadhead, etc...I've spent time going to raves, hundreds of phish shows, saw the grateful dead only 5 times before Jerry passed, but have seen ratdog, phil, the dead, hundreds of times. I really enjoy live music and I enjoy traveling to see really great live music even more. The New Orleans Jazz Festival is one of my favorite vacation spots and I've gone several times.

I am 28 year old male from waukegan, il...........i work for a web-based company........i have a associates degree in applied science, and a bachelors degree in computer networking / web design......i am living life to the fullest....i like to have fun at any cost.....when you are with me, there is never a dull moment..........i am very spontaneous and love to please.........but besides that, if you can think of anything else you would like to know about me, then ask and ill tell you...........thats just because im very open-minded and outgoing............

Well this is an interesting predicament to be in.
I literally found this web site by accident, created a profile just to see what the site was like, met some fantastic people and discovered that there was still a place in my heart for a woman who "just gets me". I have been at another site for a few months and did not met anyone like the people I met here, and they charged a lotta money for no return. I guess this means that I am not looking for any matches at this time.
Again, I never would have thought I would be at "this" place right now at this time. The universe works in strange ways.

Single again and looking for a woman to spend time with. I am a considerate and compassionate guy looking for an interesting woman who has or likes kids as I have 4 sons and they are a HUGE part of my life. If you can share your personal time with me I will share my personal time with you. I'm low maintenance, but I need personal time with you.
Drop me a line and lets see how we match up. I have a long list of interests and I am always looking to try something new. What's your favorite free time activity? Let me know, we might just click. I will also share my list of activities and see if I can con vert you to something new.

I'm almost 27 and have an almost 2yr old daughter, who's father is a deadbeat. I also cuss like a drunken sailor and look like I'm maybe 19. Any questions feel free to ask.

If you want access to my facebook http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1440022331#!/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1440022331...
just NOTE THAT YOU ARE FROM HERE or I WONT ADD YOU.

Love nature not conformed to some western religion that claims to have the real answers. Love music various types except rap hip hop nonsense. Like to do different things and go to various places learn the history and the culture. Woodworking, gardens,building projects are some of my inner personal joys. I Can be mysterious in a fun sort of way, if you are Wiccan, then you know what I mean. I'm very private but not introverted I tend to be out going with people I trust. as far as sex when in the mood its great. I'm not looking for someone who just wants daily sex, life has more to offer than just that.

I'm a pretty sociable guy who's looking to meet new people and make some new friends. I'm a modern day nerd, but an old-fashioned gent. I love bad jokes and puns almost to a fault. I don't mind getting my hands dirty but always keep my conscience (and armpits) clean.

I love playing games. I play board games (Settlers of Catan, Carcassone, Power Grid), video games (Chrono Trigger, Fallout, Katamari), roleplaying games (D&D, Rogue Trader, Paranoia), card games (Munchkin, Pit, Uno) and dice games (Craps, Gutshot, Monsterpocalypse). If I can get a group of people around a table to have a good time, then I'm a happy camper.

History fascinates me. I like to ask really mundane questions about the past. Where did samurai go to the bathroom? What kind of toys did Aztec children play with? How did the Vikings combat the flu? Human history is as filled with day to day riddles that are just as fascinating as the big wars and tragedies.

I prefer cold weather. You'll usually find me running around outside in the winter. In the summer I like to swim and barbecue (when I'm not convinced that I'll spontaneously combust). Fall is spent anticipating winter and spring is spent missing it. I go out of my way every winter to build a Snowthulhu.

my name is abi and i love to hang out wit friends and have an awesome time ..

i like to have fun and enjoy life, i have a good sense of humor and love it when a woman does too!

I guess im just a big kid at heart im into going to concerts traveling and hanging out with people i like. I am willing to try different things and i go great with a bowl of milk lol

I'm a quirky and geeky/dorky midwest guy. My biggest hobby is music: both listening to and playing. I also enjoy watching movies.

I should clarify this first, *AHEM* I AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MAINLY! That is to say just because I have casual sex, or activity partners or whatever listed, doesn't mean I'm just out for a free shag, I would like to meet new people for the sake of that, new people, new friends. The burbs are dying, and the city is too expensive, so what am I supposed to do?

I'm a very passionate person. I do not see money as a driving force in life, it is simply a way to live in this world. I live for the better things, the experiences and people life has laid out before me to learn and feel. I'm one of a kind, a free thinker, and a hands on kind of guy. I'm an aquarius with a moon in taurus... Hmmm... I love questions, if you have any, ask anything you like.

I am very happy to have my crew. Loyal, tough, smart. We stick together, work together, always come out on top. My friends are my family. No Idea where I would be without them. Lets seeeeee....

I'll throw in a few more things about me... I'll arrange it easy to read through too...

Age: 21
Height: 6'2"
Weight: 220
Build: A little extra, still firm
Hair: Dirty Blonde
Eyes: Change (green-blue-grey)
Piercings: None, Yet
Tattoo's: None, Yet

Turn On's:
Dark / Dyed Hair
Long Hair
Piercing's
Tattoo's
Glasses
Free Thinkers
Laid Back

Turn Off's:
Being crazy
Too much Drama
Too Violent or Aggressive
Lazy

Well... Thats it for that right now. Lets see. What else.

I like to be adventurous, out doors, going and doing things. Yet I do enjoy staying in, cuddling up, watching movies. I love movies, they are my favorite, an ability to take you away from the world you live in, and to totally entrance you in a different world. Meh, I'm a dreamer.

I do smoke on occasion, thats about it. I drink socially. More in winter than summer. I'm convinced that the best times don't have to be anything specific or more than just hanging out with some buds, good tunes, and good friends. :)

I really am not looking for anything romantic or serious. Too much drama from the last few relationships, too much drama in the whole world as is. I'm more about seeing people, having fun. Not just sex, but good times in general. Friends, experiences. Any takers?

I'm pretty laid back and easy going everywhere else, but behind closed doors I'm aggressive, dominant, rough... Well... Yeah you get the picture...

Hey, I'm Rafa short for "Rafael". So hmmm, How can I really summarize myself on here? I feel like I never do well writing about myself on these things. To keep it simple I guess i'm pretty nerdy at times, love video games and electronics, the outdoors "camping <3", favorite sports would be baseball and football (Watch the Bears game every sunday in season), not big on clubs..more into sports or dive bars. I'm always up for an adventure, Love riding around on the bike... I think that's all I will post for now but, if you really wanna get to know me just hit me up and ask me any questions you'd like :)

If you don't like me it's because you don't know me. I'm sweet but blunt, I don't lie because I don't see a point in doing so. I'm not needy nor am I greedy, Very independent on myself! I am to young and to pretty to stress over anything. I am not conceited, just confident. I am not Vindictive, Just Direct and to the point. Progress is very important. You should always do better then you did last year. I'm a drama free person and I'm quick to clip anyone who brings me any. I'm a very busy person but I'm always willing to make time for those I care about.. I have a really big heart but I don?t Tolerate bull Sh*t.. Raised to never put hands on a man. I'm a grown a$$ woman so the only game I play is spades(all trust). Communication and trust are very important to me. If you lose my trust then I forgot your name; if I cant communicate with you then I'm just going to stop talking to you all in all. I'm very respectful and expect the same.